Gender Diverse FAQ

As a Non-Binary Queer Trans person, I care deeply about the needs of the community, which is why I offer completely customizable items for people across the gender spectrum.
There are two ways to shop gender- specific items:
  1. Shop the Gender Diverse categories in the “shop” tab above


  1. Customize an order that's not gender specific. All items can be made for Transfemme genitalia (although this does not necessarily add compression). 


There are other alterations (which may have an additional fee), so please message me to discuss these options before making a purchase. 


New to all this? 

Read more about each affirming garment that we create below:


Transfemme Soft Undies


I carry a line of everyday Transfemme soft undies, which are luxuriously soft and stretchy. You will want to live in them. They are so comfortable! The midsection is wider to allow for comfort and they are double-layered in the entire front, though they do not offer any compression. 


Compression Gaffs


A gaff is, at its most basic, a pair of compression underwear. A gaff is made to be worn either with or without a “tuck” and works to help trans femme folks (or anyone else with a penis) achieve a flatter, more gender-affirmed look. Amongst many other things, this can help folks fit certain clothing designs (like swimwear) in a way that is more comfortable and affirming. For many trans femme folks, tucking is also important to their safety when out in public. 

My compression gaffs are compatible with tucking, as well as being used for moderate compression without a tuck to achieve a flattened front.  They feature a double-lined powermesh front and a semi-sheer single layer back. 

Compression gaffs will fit very tightly when you first get them, and will relax over the first few wears. 

You can read more about how to safely tuck here

If you are a Transfemme who faces significant financial barriers to gender-affirming gaffs, you can apply to the Free Transfemme Shapewear Program through Point of Pride. Through our partnership, you can apply to be sent one of my hipster compression gaffs, for free. It is open to anyone in the world.
Please only place a request if you are truly in need of support. We have a very limited number of donated garments available, and we use the honour system so there are as few obstacles as possible for our recipients. 
Click here to donate to this program so that we can send out more free gender-affirming products
There are two styles of swim gaffs which combine the inner powermesh layer of the gaff with a swimwear lycra outer layer.  These two items have been specifically designed to offer medium compression on their own. These can be combined with a mesh gaff thong for strong compression.
In addition to the specifically labelled gaffs, all undies and swim bottoms can be made in a gaff cut for no extra charge. For swimwear, this means one layer or powermesh liner which adds light to medium compression. For high- compression swimwear, I suggest combining this with a separate mesh gaff for strong compression. Please leave me a message in the checkout for this customization.
I offer a line of packing bottoms for Transmasculine folks which are specifically designed to be worn with a Packer or a Stand-To-Pee (STP) device. They are a super soft, hygienic, everyday option to minimize the appearance of the STP/Packer while still being able to use it easily and discreetly.
Binders are made to offer moderate compression to the chest. Some are made to be used under clothes and some are opaque and can be used to swim. The inner powermesh layer(s) offers moderate binding while allowing for some flexibility to make sure breathing is not restricted. It's best to note how much compression you're looking for when you order, however, some binders only offer light or moderate compression. 
Binders will fit very tightly when you first get them, and will relax over the first few wears. 
All bras can be made in any band/cup size combination, including those with no difference between the bust and underbust measurements. We also offer different styles of bra inserts.
Accessibility and Discretion
I have worked extensively with Queer and Gender Diverse communities to create undergarments for those who live outside of the gender binary and I'm happy to help you with those specific needs.  If you need modifications to an item, please message me. 

All my transactions and delivery methods are confidential and discreet. Packages are marked as "clothing" and have no outer branding besides the return address.